Hi,
Customer Notes is a "shopper fields", can be disabled/enabled/edited through
Virtuemart Backend >> Configuration >> Shopper Fields
I don't understand what exactly you meant, but if you are asking how to translate/change it;
Open the language INI file;
/components/com_virtuemart/language/en-GB/en-GB.com_virtuemart.ini
add this line to the bottom;
COM_VIRTUEMART_CNOTES_CART="Type here what ever you want"
Regards.