Hi,
Yes you are correct, LightMArt is a Joomla+Virtuemart Template, All in one. So if you already have a Joomla Template and willing to preserve it, then LightMart is not a product for you.
Have you checked out the PureMart which is our other template and it is what you are looking for. it is Virtuemart Template and only changes the Virtuemart layout. It can be integrated to any Joomla Template.
www.flexiblewebdesign.com/Virtuemart-Templates/Virtuemart-2-template-PureMart
Check it out, see the DEMO.
If you would like, i can replace your LightMart with PureMart - free of charge (since both LightMart and PureMart has the same price).
Regards
Support & Development